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August 09, 2023

It’s inevitable. Towards the end of a season, it always happens:

You get into a rut.

Your summer house projects have plateaued. Your curated summer wardrobe feels drab. Your schedule is nonexistent. But you can get ahead of it this year— with just a few changes, you can squeeze summer for every last drop without wishing it away.

So, we’ve got tiny, baby steps to take you from hum-drum to huzza:

  • A new home: But without buying one.

  • Marriage: A quirky piece of advice from 16 years in the trenches.

  • Bread: Einkorn?! Einkorn is the man?

  • Fashion: Finding what compliments your skin tone.

HOME DECOR: Moneypit sweet moneypit. All the summer projects are adding up,đŸ€‘ but you still need a change. Where to find inexpensive, new home goods? Look no further: you’ve got it already. As in, use what you got.

Instead of inundating you with all the new fall lines (aka new stuff you don’t need), here are tips and inspiration to give your house a refresh without spending a dime:

  1. Aggressively declutter. Nothing says “new house” more than an empty house. (Favorite tip is #9.) 📩

  2. Bring in the Beauty: Snip some blooms from your yard to decorate your mantle, table, or nightstand.

  3. Nothing anchors and accessorizes a room like a rug. Swap out your rugs between rooms for a new look.

  4. Try my favorite hobby that couples as a workout: change your living room layout. Warning: your son/husband/friend may get tired of this hobby after the fifth time you move the couch
don’t ask me how I know.

  5. Print out fresh, free art! đŸ–Œ Layer modpog over prints for a vintage feel. (This is perfect for a kid’s room, for a pop of color, or for a neutral vibe.)

  6. Take a pretty throw blanket or extra material and drape between your couch back and cusions for a pop of color.

MARRIAGE: You’ve heard it before. “Never let the sun go down on your anger.” It’s from the Bible, so we respect it, but — quite frankly — it’s never worked for us. Here’s a little secret — most arguments resolve with sleep. đŸ’€ On the other hand, it’s helpful to have tried and true advice for tough moments. And, the reality is, advice that’s not helpful at one time becomes helpful later. Check out this marriage advice from 10 dads — and, remember, it’s always better in the morning.

FOOD: Is Einkorn the new sourdough? With a higher protein and lower gluten content, Einkorn in the “new” ancient grain. It’s high in vitamins and minerals, and easier to digest than most breads. If you’re edging towards gluten free, try these biscuits and this pizza recipe. But all that good stuff comes at a price. Here are some tips to work with this tricky grain. Don’t throw your sourdough designs out quite yet


FASHION: A way to elevate your style: monochromatics. Inject new style into your ‘old’ stuff.

First, use this simple 2-part test to choose colors that compliment your skin tone. Second, build your outfit by varying tones of the same color (layer dark denim on a lighter wash, beige with a creamy tan, etc.). Third, add texture. Think: knit top with linen pants or a silk scarf against a cotton tee. Texture is what adds visual interest to an otherwise flat palette. Fourth: add accessories. If you’re going for a full monochrome outfit, add a neutral shoe and layer delicate jewelry, or, if you have an ivory get-up, opt for a bag with a pop of color.

Your chromatic look can be sporty, casual, or ultra-fem — however you like it. Some layering pieces in my cart: an affordable sweater tank, a cropped blazer, linen trousers, or this (stand alone) jumpsuit. 💃

Another mostly-serious list today of things I think create happiness for men: marry the right woman, eat meat, develop a skill, double down on one hobby (preferably and outdoor hobby), prioritize physical strength, read books, get outdoors and get sunshine, spend less than you earn, fast regularly, go hide in the garage and think (for just a bit), maybe smoke a pipe.

-Mr6am

Have an excellent day,